Mommy's Strange Dream
Mommy had a terrible dream last night. Mommy dreamt that Megan slipped in her hands while going down stairs and the Megan almost fell. Mommy was so upset about it that this morning on the way to her post partum check up she was extra careful and made sure she completely buckled Megan. Mommy had a strange feeling something is going to happen today. After the check, Mommy and Daddy came home unstrapped Megan but then decided to go out again and do some shopping at the store next block from home. So Mommy and Daddy decided not to strap Megan but when Mommy and Daddy got back, Daddy pulled Megan's basket with only one hand and did it a little fast that the basket tilted and Megan fell towards the car seat with Megan's body totally folded like a ball from waist up, Megan's head touching her toes. Mommy saw it happened and aske Daddy to stop. Mommy rushed to pick Megan up. Megan was asleep and didn't even cry. This totally upset Mommy.
Mommy just decided to have a talk with Daddy right there. Mommy has been very worried how it is gonna be when Mommy will go back to work. Daddy thinks, Megan hates Daddy. But it is not true, of course not. Daddy just needs to get used to Daddy more and Daddy needs to pay attention, be patient and be focused on Megan and not on his computer game or the tv. Mommy explained to Daddy that Megan is very precious and we do not want to regret anything or to miss anything while Megan is growing. Mommy knows that babies grow so fast and Mommy wants to be there while everything is happening and is hoping that Daddy would feel the same. Daddy loves Megan very much but Daddy loves to play too and when he does he get so hooked to it. Mommy is trying to convince Daddy that Megan will just stay with Sylvia (daycare) once Mommy starts working but Daddy doesn't want it because of the costs. Mommy has asked Daddy to just go back to work same time with Mommy so he gets the 100% pay and then not worry about the costs but Daddy's HR is too confusing for him that he did not want to deal with them more than he should.
Daddy said to Mommy today, that Mommy doesn't think Daddy is capable of taking care of Megan by himself...
Mommy said she wants Daddy to work on it with Mommy before Monday...or just make up his mind whether to watch Megan or ask Sylvia. Daddy stopped talking to Mommy...
Megan's taking the bottles well since yesterday. Lola Cecilia decided to buy Megan the premixed in can formula because that was what Megan took right after she was born. It is a little expensive but if Megan likes it then Megan will have it. Mommy is still planning to work on giving Megan the powdered formula because Mommy has always used it to supplement her breastfeeding the whole time, so maybe Megan will be able to take it solely in time.
Mommy just decided to have a talk with Daddy right there. Mommy has been very worried how it is gonna be when Mommy will go back to work. Daddy thinks, Megan hates Daddy. But it is not true, of course not. Daddy just needs to get used to Daddy more and Daddy needs to pay attention, be patient and be focused on Megan and not on his computer game or the tv. Mommy explained to Daddy that Megan is very precious and we do not want to regret anything or to miss anything while Megan is growing. Mommy knows that babies grow so fast and Mommy wants to be there while everything is happening and is hoping that Daddy would feel the same. Daddy loves Megan very much but Daddy loves to play too and when he does he get so hooked to it. Mommy is trying to convince Daddy that Megan will just stay with Sylvia (daycare) once Mommy starts working but Daddy doesn't want it because of the costs. Mommy has asked Daddy to just go back to work same time with Mommy so he gets the 100% pay and then not worry about the costs but Daddy's HR is too confusing for him that he did not want to deal with them more than he should.
Daddy said to Mommy today, that Mommy doesn't think Daddy is capable of taking care of Megan by himself...
Mommy said she wants Daddy to work on it with Mommy before Monday...or just make up his mind whether to watch Megan or ask Sylvia. Daddy stopped talking to Mommy...
Megan's taking the bottles well since yesterday. Lola Cecilia decided to buy Megan the premixed in can formula because that was what Megan took right after she was born. It is a little expensive but if Megan likes it then Megan will have it. Mommy is still planning to work on giving Megan the powdered formula because Mommy has always used it to supplement her breastfeeding the whole time, so maybe Megan will be able to take it solely in time.
posted by Butik at
1:49 PM
1 Comments:
I have a lot of friends that had a similar outlook when they had their first child: they would get paranoid that something bad would happen to their baby, like they were afraid that they would drop the baby or something. I guess I can't really relate since I don't have a baby yet, and my babies are hairy and have four legs. :)
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